Gender and the Military

I have several family members and friends that have served in the military either presently, or in the past. My grandfather went to Kings Point and served for the merchant marines as did his father. Several friends I've had throughout high school and college also went to serve in the army and navy. Because of this, I am a huge supporter of the military and all who serve our country, no matter the gender. Gender has played its part in the military, as men are often used for more labor intensive tasks. Men are also more commonly used in high intensity combat units and combat situations. Many feel that women are discriminated against in these situations, and that the idea that men are stronger than women is demonstrated. Gender is also portrayed in military wives versus military husbands, and in the media. Military wives are often praised in society, the women in taking care of the children and supporting her husband as she fights for her country. Military husbands are often not praised in the same way. In some situations, military husbands are seen as weak, that their wife is abroad serving her country while he is home taking care of the household. Military husbands masculinity is often challenged. In the media, when the military is advertised or portrayed in movies, men are most commonly shown. These military men portrayed in the media often perform brave acts of courage in time of war. Most women in military movies play the role of nurses as well. Gender inequalities are definitely eminent in the military, however, it has improved in recent decades. I often see military commercials now with women soldiers incorporated. However, one question I pose is this: if women expect complete equality in the military, shouldn't they be subjected to being drafted into the military as well? What if a man is a better soldier than the women? Is it still considered gender inequality if the man is chosen over the women for an important combat mission?